Thinking about upcoming Mothers’ Day, I was trying to remember some of the traditions from long ago.  What came to mind were old time traditions, not necessarily associated with Mothers’ Day per se, but things that most mothers did on a regular basis.  For instance, how hanging out the laundry on the clothesline served as a neighborhood communication service.  If there were more sheets than usual on the neighbor’s line on a regular day, indications were that someone in the family might be sick and need help. A plate of cookies or a fresh-baked cake might be in order.

If someone missed a regular laundry day, were they away? out of town? having a problem at home? All situations needed investigation.  More than usual laundry could mean company, catch up, or just the beginning of Spring cleaning. Of course, the whole neighborhood was privy to everyone’s clothesline information!!
And don’t forget the “over the backyard fence” conversations that began with the clothesline. The exchange of gossip, recipes and camaraderie was an absolute given and a community necessity.

Later on, hanging clothes became an artistic challenge. All clothes the same color together? or mix and match forming patches of colorful waving flags? Many an artist has been inspired by the glimpse of clothes hanging on a line!! I wish there were more clotheslines today!!

Another “Mother” thing from long ago was that Mom ALWAYS wore an apron!! It served multiple purposes.  Certainly protecting clothes was its principal use but drying hands, wiping up numerous spills, wiping runny noses, drying tears and sweat and serving as a pot holder were among its everyday uses. Farther back in time, carrying eggs or kindling wood or even chickens figured into its uses. What about covering the face of a shy child? How often did intimidated youngsters run to mommy to hide under her apron?

Later on the apron took on other significances. To the Amish women, it was indicative of their marital status. To the pioneer woman, it was a symbol of shelter, warmth and comfort. Many countries have apron traditions which figure in their native dress/costumes.
Sadly, today the apron has become more of a decorative item rather than a daily necessity.

Depending on who you are and what part of this Great Country you were raised in, we all have our own, intimate memories and thoughts about our Mother and what Mother’s Day means to us. In today’s world, commercializing our holidays has become the norm and it is easy to lose the true reason for the season depending on the holiday.
For Mother’s Day, our own memories of tender love and caring are something that can never be lost or taken away from us.